Choosing the right lubricant. Why Lube matters!

Let’s clear something up—lubricant isn’t just a “nice to have”… it’s a game-changer.

Lubricant is not limited to an "older" person.  Every women will benefit from a good lubricant and heres why!  

Whether you’re enjoying self pleasure, navigating changes in your body (this can be during hormonal changes, such as pregnancy, perimenopause and menopause) time with a partner, or using toys,  lube will elevate your comfort, pleasure, and connection in ways most people don’t even realise.

💧 Why Lube Is So Important

1. Comfort = Confidence
Even when you’re aroused, and we all need around 15-20 minutes of foreplay for the body to really heat up so natural lubrication can vary—and that’s completely normal, you can begin to dry even during sex.  There are many factors that can impact this,  things like stress, hormones, medications, menopause, or just everyday life can all impact it.  (remember your brain is your biggest sexual organ so if that hasnt engaged your body will not respond how you would like).  

Using lube reduces friction,, helps to prevent micro tears in the vagina, that can cause discomfort.  Lubricant will make everything feel smoother, more comfortable, and more enjoyable therefore giving you the ability to relax and enjoy the sensations along with greater confidence. 

2. Better Sensation
Less friction doesn’t mean less feeling—it actually means more.
Lube enhances sensation, helping you stay in the moment instead of being distracted by discomfort.

3. Supports Your Body at Every Stage
From postpartum changes to perimenopause and beyond, lube is one of the easiest ways to support your body without pressure or expectation.

4. Makes the sensations from your Toys Better (Trust Me 😉)
If you’re using toys—lube isn’t optional, it’s essential.
It helps toys glide, feels better as the lubricant helps to increase the sensation from the toy, and prevents unnecessary irritation.  Remember you want to have a pleasurable experience. 

🧴 Types of Lube (And How to Choose)

Not all lubes are created equal—and choosing the right one makes all the difference.

Water-Based Lube

Best all-rounder

• Has a natural lightweight feel, the waterbased lubricant is pH balanced so its perfect for the sensitive girls.  (it is available in flavoured options too) This product is compatible with natural rubber latex, polyisoprene, and polyurethane condoms.
• (Nourishing Drops a vaginal moisturiser, with hyaluronic acid is perfect for everyday use and works well in conjunction with any waterbased lubricant. 
• Looking for an organic option you can try Organic Water Based lubricant, that Made without parabens, sulfates, dyes, added fragrances, harsh ingredients, or animal byproducts. FDA licensed and ISO certified. 
• Safe with all toys and condoms (lube is especially important to use with condoms)
  
• Easy to clean off toys and sheets. 

💡 Perfect for: everyday use, beginners, and toy play

Silicone-Based Lube

Long-lasting & ultra-smooth

• Silicone Personal moisturiser is made with simple ingredients and fortified with vitamin E for a silky luxurious feel 
• Stays on the surface of the body so it doesn’t dry out quickly
• Great for longer sessions or water play
• Perfect for anal play - there is no natural lubrication in the anal area so lube use generously
  

💡 Perfect for: extended play, shower fun, anal play 

⚠️ Note: Not always compatible with silicone toys

🌿 What is important to consider.....

When choosing a lube, quality is everything.

Look for:

• pH-balanced formulas
• Body-safe ingredients
• Glycerin-free (especially if you’re sensitive)
• Products designed to support vaginal health, not disrupt it

 Fun and flavoured lubricants!  

These are designed to be body safe and perfect for oral play.  Sometimes ladies will use the flavoured waterbased lubricant if they are concerned about their natural body odour and also want to add that extra fun factor!

Whipped Creamy lubricant

Whipped  a delicious flavoured creamy emollient lubricant,  perfect as a fun body topping for both him and her, great for oral favours. Also a perfect lubricant to use when using CRings.  (apply a small amount around the cring and place over the penis.   Think dessert topping - Strawberry Cheesecake or Vanilla Cupcake.  Team  up this tasty treat with the Heart Massager for a fun erotic massage.   Designed more for external use, but can be used for anal play due to the creaminess of the product. 

Sensations warming lubricant.

Sensations heats up with friction,  rub, blow lick, and feel the heat pulsating through your body.  Add an ice cube for a delicious combination hot and cold for ultimate sensations.  Select from Cotton Candy or Pineapple Paradise for those flavoured treats.  

Using lube isn’t about “fixing a problem”—it’s about enhancing pleasure, supporting your body, and making intimacy feel even better.

Once you start using the right lube… you’ll wonder why you ever went without it.

not sure which one is right for you?  you are welcome to send me a message with any of your questions.  partiesbybronwynp@gmail.com